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By: Staci Stallings
I’ve been reading a very small book with a very big message. It’s called, “Fish.”
One little poem in it that is probably rather old caught my attention today. It went like this:
“The past is history.
The future is a mystery.
Now is a gift.
That’s why it’s called the present.”
In writing the books, I have written characters and walked with them through life, and one of the things I have found is that people who are “lost,” “searching,” or “hurting” are usually not living in the present. They wish things had been different in the past, and they get stuck there. They do not see that what they are doing RIGHT NOW is much more important to what will happen tomorrow. They pine and wish and whine today away, so that today becomes a replica of yesterday.
The other side of the coin are people who live for tomorrow. “Someday…” “When…” “If only…” They will put life off until… I get a car, I get a house, I get into school, I get out of school, I get that new job, I get out of this job, I pay off the house, I retire… And every day they waste is one more day they do not have.
The truth is that our lives are truly lived not on one side of the coin or on the other. They are lived on that fine line of the edge of the coin between yesterday and tomorrow.
I have a plaque in my living room that reads: Life is like a coin, you can spend it any way you want, but spend it wisely for you only get to spend it once.
How are you spending your “present”? Is how you are spending now moving you forward? Or are you waiting to start moving forward until the future happens?
Make wise use of your present.
It’s the only one you’ve really got.
By: Staci Stallings “I’ll do it tomorrow.” “I’m starting my diet on Monday.” “I’ll start exercising next week.” We’ve all done it–put off ’til tomorrow what we know we should be doing today. There’s an old song called “One Day at a Time,” and if I have made any type of New Years…
By: Staci Stallings As I’ve thought about this concept this week, I realize this has been one of the keys of my newfound peace. For many years, I was “wound tight” as a friend of mine said. The reason I was “wound tight” was because it was all about me… my plans, my…
By: Staci Stallings My niece and nephews arrived this morning bright and early. I’m watching the four of them (plus my three) for most of the day. They are truly great kids and get along swimmingly with my kids, so it will be good. One thing I thought was interesting was when they…
By: Staci Stallings I woke up this morning and realized Spring Break is over. All in all not a bad thing exactly. At least I don’t have to sit here and listen to my kids fight all the time. Today, they are the teachers’ issues. (And we simply don’t pay teachers enough, I’ve…
By: Staci Stallings Most of us live like we plan a trip. If you were going to, let’s say Iowa (just because), and you were going to drive there. What is the first thing you would do? Get out a map, right? (Some of us would have to figure out exactly where Iowa…