God’s CONSTANT Input

February 16, 2012 | 4 Comments

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by:  Staci Stallings

One of the most interesting aspects of the rise of Coming Undone through the Amazon book ranks at the beginning of February (it was #1 on Religious Fiction and Religious & Inspirational, as well as #11 on the overall Free Kindle Store) has been the reviews.

What interests me is the 2 1-star reviews I have received so far.  The first went like this:

“Coming Undone, My Dear Lord!?!

NONONO! Why?  God has to work very hard in this one. Why?

I guess without his CONSTANT input we can’t deal with life.”

This is not a spoiler for the book, but in it the heroine, Kathryn works in a hospice unit as a social worker.  Now think about it for just a moment.  She deals with death, families going through death, and the people who become her friends losing the people they love over and over and over again.  So it’s not like she’s asking God for help purchasing a latte.

But even without this heightened need for God and His help, I want to ask this person and the other who left a similar review decrying the characters’ reliance on God… what’s the alternative?

What is the alternative to relying on God every moment?

Doing it yourself?

Isn’t that the very definition of Original Sin?  “I don’t need God.  I can do this on my own”?

And even if you don’t want to go that far with it, let’s look at it from a relationship standpoint.  Let’s say you have a friend, and this friend is someone you greatly admire and even say you love.  Now let’s say that the only time you ever talk to this friend is when you are in desperate need of help.  I mean, otherwise, you don’t need this friend, so why talk to him, right?

How would you feel if someone did that to you?  How would you like it if the only time this person showed up at your doorstep was when they had messed everything up, everything was horrible, and they needed you to fix it?

Yeah.  That’s what I think too.

We wouldn’t want to be treated that way, so why do we think God does?

I think some of this “don’t rely on God all the time” mentality goes back to the unBiblical saying, “God helps those who help themselves.”  I’m curious who in the Bible really “helped themselves” the way this saying seems to tell us to do.  Abraham?  His helping God turned into a disaster we still haven’t recovered from.  Moses?  Would that “helping himself” have been the part about killing the Egyptian or the refusing to go talk to Pharaoh because he couldn’t talk well?

What about Mary?  When the angel showed up, did she start making a list of all the things she’d better do and accomplish to earn being the Mother of God?

Or how about Jesus, Himself?  Have you ever noticed how many times the Bible refers to Him going off by Himself to pray?  Why?  Because He thought He could do it Himself?  And He was GOD!

Yes, God sometimes has to work very hard in our lives.  Why?  Because we need Him!  We need Him to show up, to help us, to guide us, to protect us, and yes, to love us.  And He is more than willing to do that if we will just ask.  So yes, I need God’s CONSTANT input in order to deal with my life.  I hope you do too!


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  1. Suzanne D Williams says: February 17, 2012

    Beautiful post, Staci. I need Him 24 hours a day. He did say, “Call on me and I will answer.” Better yet, “I will answer and show you great and mighty things which you know not!” (Jeremiah 33:3)

    • Staci Stallings says: February 17, 2012

      Amen to that, Suzanne. I can’t imagine not living every moment with Him… nor would I want to. I have definitely gotten OFF of the “look how grand and wonderful I am” train and onto the “Lord, if You don’t show up, I’m sunk” train, and let me tell you, I like THIS train a WHOLE lot better!

  2. Anne Payne says: February 18, 2012

    I saw that review and figured it was just another one of those people who gets the free download without investigating if the book is from a secular write/publisher or a Christian writer/publisher.

    “Pray without ceasing”, meaning God wants us to rely on Him ALL the time pretty much means “I guess without his CONSTANT input we can’t deal with life.” Yep, pretty much! ;-)

    I was hoping to read the book but by the time I got over there it was only free to “prime” members :/ I will put it on my wish list!

    • Staci Stallings says: February 18, 2012

      I thought, “Well, she might not have LIKED the message, but she got the message!” :)

      And Anne, if you subscribe either here or at http://ebookromancestories.com I will let you know the next time one of mine goes free. Then maybe it can go from the wish list to the reading list! :)


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